Damn, the world is spinning wildly right now.

Our hearts are holding such vulnerability – and hope – of so many people who are trying to breathe open fear and worry in a tumultuous time. Those who come to Spillian, and those who’ve never heard of the Catskills. Our hearts are there, too.

And all we can say is love matters. Love MATTERS.

And it’s reminding us that in a truly deep way, people making commitments to one another in love is really important. Beyond the pageantry and performance and fantasies of weddings.

Love.

That’s it.

Love matters. Every day, in every promise we make to ourselves and each other.

It may be the only thing that can pull us through this crazy time.

This image is of Jem and Olin, by Carolina Rivera Photography.


Spillian is about imagination. About joy. About a deep savoring of what we hold most dear and what we most passionately wish for. It is a place that was created for family and celebration, and has gracefully welcomed generations of guests as they open their hearts to one another.

In this tradition, Spillian is a place for a very special kind of celebration. Of weddings that echo with the unique stories of the couple and their beloveds, that mark a beginning of how they imagine their lives will weave together. We are delighted to make Spillian available for a limited number of weddings and special celebrations each year, and invite you to imagine a wedding that most captures you and what you wish your future together will bring.

Click here if you’d like to learn more about weddings at Spillian!